http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/ The latest Blog feeds from www.knd.org.nz en-us Thu, 30 Apr 2026 04:18:58 +1200 Rocketspark http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/158329/our-new-dads-book-launches-in-2026/ ... Mon, 22 Dec 2025 13:32:40 +1300 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post158329 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/145008/what-comes-after-turning-pain-into-progress/ For Mikkel*, the end of a relationship led to one of the hardest periods of his life. But with support, reflection and time, it also became a turning point. His story is a reminder that break-ups can be powerful learning experiences, and that recovery isn’t instant, but a journey worth taking.... Sun, 11 May 2025 12:57:23 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post145008 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/144998/the-role-of-apps-and-ai-in-managing-co-parenting-conflicts/ We’re always looking for tools and strategies to ease the conflict that often arises between separated parents during communication.... Sat, 10 May 2025 17:19:11 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post144998 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/145019/real-collaboration-for-real-change/ By Anna Mowat – Real ParentsWhen we talk about supporting whānau through tough times, it’s often the collaboration behind the scenes that truly makes the difference. One recent case with Kidz Need Dadz (KND) stands out as one of the most complex – and one of the most collaborative – I’ve ever worked on.The client, a father serving time in prison, was navigating not only the justice system but also the hopes of reconnecting with his children. It was a situation layered with grief, trau... Sat, 10 May 2025 13:59:35 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post145019 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/144985/with-gratitude-honouring-sheila-ewarts-more-than-two-decades-of-service/ After more than two decades of involvement — and recently stepping down as Chair — Sheila Ewart is taking a moment to reflect on the long road she’s walked with Kidz Need Dadz.From the earliest meetings in community halls to the organisation it is today, Sheila has played a quiet but steady role in helping shape Kidz Need Dadz. Looking back, she recalls her original purpose clearly: “Educate the fathers, I suppose was my intent at the time,” she says. Sheila’s involvement began ... Wed, 07 May 2025 11:47:41 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post144985 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/105954/podcast-stronger-dads-collective/ Craig McGuigan, our Christchurch Manger, was a guest on the Stronger Dads Collective Podcast.  It was a great chance to promote Kidz Need Dadz and also have some insights into what being a Dad means to Craig. Check it out https://open.spotify.com/episode/3l2ZARWWGaOnxGUek436Xx?si=iNsOkhwiTPCyxSIG8LsqQw... Tue, 20 Jun 2023 13:57:50 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post105954 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/105156/relocation-can-be-a-challenge/ What happens when one parent wants to relocate to a different region with the children? Recently we had a dad contact us concerned that the other parent was unilaterally moving to another region with their child, causing him distress.  Fortunately, an urgent application was made as a ‘Dispute between Guardians’ to the Family Court. That same day an interim order was granted ensuring that the child be returned to their hometown, there was a seven-day limit placed on their return.&nb... Tue, 30 May 2023 11:56:08 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post105156 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/102861/feedback-from-a-dad/ As a dad, losing day-to-day care of my kids and attempting to navigate the court process has been an emotional and difficult time. The team at KidzKare have provided me and my children with kind, unbiased supervision during our visits.  The KidzKare venue is full of toys for all kids and helps to make an unfamiliar setting seem fun for the kids. I found all the supervisors to be pleasant, fair and supportive.  They always put my kids at ease and are excellent at facilitating ... Wed, 05 Apr 2023 15:05:11 +1200 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post102861 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/102255/support-and-mentoring/ Sometimes you just get to stumble across a gem. I was doing a bit of research on protection orders and going through my big thick family law textbook from my law school days.  A protection order is a legal means to mitigate the incidences of familial violence (physical or psychological), pursuant to the Family Violence Act 2018.   One particular piece of commentary that caught my eye came from a local Tauranga Family Court Judge:  “availability … of supporters a... Fri, 24 Mar 2023 10:54:34 +1300 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post102255 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/post/99290/welcome-to-2023/ Welcome to 2023After a summer break of wet weather and earthquakes (here in the Bay of Plenty) it was still a time to step back for a few weeks. After two summers of Covid restrictions, mother nature rained on this one.A top tip I give to our dads is sometimes taking a step back is the best action to take. There is no shame in taking a tactical retreat, particularly if it feels like the sky is falling in around you. It gives you an opportunity to consolidate and get your ducks in ... Wed, 18 Jan 2023 14:22:15 +1300 http://www.knd.org.nz/blog/#post99290